Hey,
Is "the user" you?

But seriously, that would work i guess.
However in your questions and concerns you note
" • Is there some method of sending the delivery to another state and then having it shipped to me from there without a risk of being caught."
Isent this the akilles heel for carding?
How do you actually get the stuff to you without actually sending it directly to your adress.
What ive read this is called a "DROP".
Im rather new here, so sorry to say, i dont have the answer for this.
BR