What messenger are you using to communicate with Jabber: Spark, Pidgin?
I need one without me creating a server of my own
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Many forums provide their own servers for visitors and you do not need to create your own server

If you want everything to be cool, buy yourself a place for money https://txgate.io/images/smilies/drinks.gif

I think that everyone is good who still works

Thanks

Friend! So which one did you decide to use?

Using a forum server is not always a good idea. They are always are target of fellow hackers and law enforcement. Its better to find a side server that forces to use OTR and doesnt keep any logs, a good example of that would be "Calyx Institute". It might be a head ache to get it to run properly but a server similar like that i think would be a better choice, just gotta pick the right one